Yesterday afternoon I had back to back to back meetings followed by a last minute call from J, needing the kids and I to come to his office to help with a video project that due to confidentiality actual clients couldn't help in. Of course by the time we did that, grabbed dinner, got home and got kids to bed, all I wanted to do was fall in bed but I had stories due.
So I wrote and I wrote and I wrote and fell into bed at 11:30 or so, the alarm went off at 6:30 this morning because M had homework she had to finish up that she didn't have time to do yesterday.{Due to rushing to J's office.}
I got T and M out the door, mostly successfully and had hoped to get to the gym, where I can check my littles into childcare and work out and read for a bit. Just after getting my kids in the car though, I saw an email on my phone realizing I screwed up and didn't get something turned in this morning that should have been.
So the me-time I was craving was put on hold.
I admit, these days, I'm a little overwhelmed. On top of the normal household and parenting responsibilities, I've got writing responsibilities not just on my blog and elsewhere. I've only got two kid-free afternoons to get work done and sometimes when that time is filled with appointments I have to make up the writing time somewhere else, such as late nights at home or the coffee shop. Oh yeah, and remember that book project I was working on once upon a time, I think it's been 3 months since I did any work on it because I am just making it with all the other responsibilities.
The list of people I am owing emails, phone calls, letters even texts! isn't even funny and makes me feel bad and honestly, sometimes keeps me up at night because I start feeling like a bad friend.
I know that this feeling and this moment is simply a season right now and that we're still finding our school/schedule groove but I also admit that between responsibilities, children and lack of babysitting options some days, the lack of down time or a break for me is getting a little bit old.
I would say that generally speaking I get my share of me time between date nights {we do get a lot of dates, including one tonight at a college alum event!} and girls nights and such but many moms {and women, in general!} don't make time for this.
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What do you do for me-time?
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PS In the time it took me to do this post, I have responded to emails, made lunch for my littles and packed a snack for H to bring to school. We're moments away from heading to the bus to get H off to kindergarten and then I'm hoping E and I are off for a long, relaxing walk.
Disclosure: This is a sponsored post but all words and opinions are mine. I am also receiving my own certificate to Colleen and Company from Eversave.
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